Please Laugh at me

Please laugh at me! This is a strange line, isn’t it? Today we can see people making fun of each other. Everyone uses his or her own unique way of humor. We have also seen that sometimes people try to let their emotions flow smoothly during these conversations. I must not stamp everyone as negative, but there are people that think that they can do anything in the name of fun with others. At the same time these geeks think that others should know their limits.

“Hey, I want to live my life” I heard.

What a strange sentence! I am not against anyone’s freedom. Freedom is the synonym of the ego now. I want to present them complete and absolute freedom,but they don’t want complete freedom also. I mean they want to be free, to sit anywhere alone or with their so called love, but if by chance something bad happen they will blame others. They will blame and wonder why others didn’t help them. They will try to project the hidden ugliness of the whole human race, but will never have the guts to admit that in their own thinking they are weak. What an irony “Freedom” has become. I mean, let me be practical (which everyone wants to be or think they are), if you are weak and not able to defend yourself from negativity or negative people then stop visiting such places. Whenever you will gain enough power to defend yourself and your partner, then you are free to roam everywhere.

“We have become a blame factory” My friend said one day.

And when I looked around and inside my own consciousness, I found he was spot on. We fail in exams, the error is of the teacher. We fail in reaching our goals or desires, the error belongs to the destiny. We fail to gain enthusiasm, the error belongs to the atmosphere. My god it is a real strange fact of today. Everyone is busy in pointing fingers towards the system, people around and destiny. No-one takes responsibility to change the wrong and paint the right. We have lost hope in it. Even when someone will try to change,  when someone tries to color the sadness or try to lift the sun, we laugh at that person. News channels are actually error channels, because they will never tell you about good things happening around you. I would love to see wrong as well as right, so that I can understand the difference and decide what to do. I found this really disturbing that people doing good things go unnoticed. It has become our culture to cry for bad and never promote the good things.  

We laugh at the fresh thoughts. We rarely accept an ideology, but we believe in catastrophic possibilities. We rarely believe that we can bring the change. What we believe is that “Superman or Superwomen or Superwhatever” will descend to our place and things will happen. The best thing is that we try to learn from what we have. This is our biggest weakness. We learn to struggle and we learn to compromise. When we learn to compromise, then we expect the same with our loved ones or our friends. We try to make them understand the utter importance of compromising things and we started laughing at them if they chose an alternate path. At times we relate compromises with human dignity, giving it highest value. The biggest irony of humanity is that “We do not believe in anything completely”. We don’t believe in god completely, neither we completely believe in the absence of it. We don’t believe completely on our actions neither we believe completely that someone else will do it for us. The matrix of our mind is so hazy that actually we mix up everything and it results in nothing. So we find an easy way to blame the system and others around us.

There is no love around us. Love is a misnomer. We don’t want to accept it because this might make us feel scared and lonely.  We are already disappointed with ourselves and we do not want to raise those demons. Most of us say “No-one knows the definition of love”. Yes, that’s true, then how can I say “I Love You” to anyone. It is very strange that like different colors of life we have different definitions of love. The definition that takes us away from our reality for some miniscule time frame, we accept it as love. Our frustrations have grown from a seed to a tree and now we want to take it away in the name of love or any other activity which can make us blind of our reality. We are so scared and disappointed with our life that we have no aim to live. Even when we see around and try to predict that everyone wants empowerment. But our actions end in abusing each other or trying to project one as weak or strong.

But I am learning to be a human being. A cynical  observer of my own activities. I am learning to connect the gold dots. I am learning and trying to understand the meaning of change or truth or whatever we may say. But most of all I have learnt that blaming will never solve the issues, the only thing that can solve it is the action of every single entity alive. My life is my choice and whatever happens with me is also my destiny. If everything is mine the how can someone else change it for me. So if you believe I am wrong . Please laugh at me.